Over the past year, we’ve been collecting data from professionals who have experienced the CLARITY Model in workshops, consultations, and organizational settings. The results have been powerful. The CLARITY Model helps professionals understand complex behaviors through a trauma-responsive, strength-based lens. Rather than asking, “What’s wrong?” it helps teams ask, “What happened?” and “What does this […]

It’s graduation season. Whether your child is graduating from kinder or college, it’s time to celebrate. Having just completed my first year as an empty-nester, I can say with confidence, watching your children graduate at ALL the stages, is beautiful. Here’s what I want to encourage you to do: Say the Things. Saying “the things” […]

I was listening to my friend and colleague, Elliott Hinkle with Unicorn Solutions present last week. Elliott is a beautiful soul with lived experience and has dedicated their life to educating others about youth impacted by systems, especially foster care systems and systems that hurt or oppress LGBTQ+ youth. Every time you feel like you know about […]

There are a few hard and fast ways to build connection with kids. One of them is showing up. When our children are little, it seems their requests are endless. The ways we are asked to show up are constant and may seem small or menial. “Mom, watch this,” as he splashed into the pool. […]

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how many leaders are carrying impossible expectations right now. You’re being asked to support overwhelmed teams while still maintaining accountability. You’re being asked to hold boundaries without damaging relationships. You try to navigate burnout, conflict, staffing shortages, emotional exhaustion, and increasing complexity… while somehow staying calm, compassionate, and steady through […]

Let’s zoom out. Because this work?  It’s bigger than a workshop.Bigger than a strategy.Bigger than one classroom or clinic.  This is about how we build systems that actually support children.  Right now, we are asking individuals to carry systemic problems.  ·       Teachers managing mental health crises  ·       Pediatricians addressing trauma in 15 minutes  ·       Parents navigating overwhelm without […]

Let me offer a reframe that might change how you see every hard moment with a child:  Behavior is communication.  Not manipulation.Not defiance.Not “attention-seeking.”  Communication.  And once you see it—you can’t unsee it.  I think about a moment early in my career…  A child was completely dysregulated—screaming, thrashing, falling apart.  Every adult in the room […]

Let’s talk about impact.  Not buzzwords. Not inspiration.  Actual, measurable change.  Because when we talk about equipping everyday professionals, people often nod… and then quietly wonder:  “Does this actually work?”  Let me answer that clearly.  Yes. And not in small ways.  When professionals are given relational tools—not just expectations—we see:  ·       98% report more tools  ·       81% […]

I’m going to say something out loud that many of you have been thinking for a long time: We cannot “refer & hope” our way out of this.  There are not enough therapists.There are not enough appointments.There are not enough crisis beds.  And yet…  There are more children struggling than we’ve ever seen.  I don’t […]

The past few weeks, we’ve been talking about centering your needs and advocating for you. I want to tell you a messy story of self-advocacy. For me, working out at the gym, moving my body, and starting my day focused on my health is non-negotiable. Well, that and coffee. When I was working at a […]